Virgo Man's jealousy

Virgo men seem to be extremely calm and reserved compared to representatives of other zodiac signs. It may even seem that these men are not at all susceptible to such a feeling as jealousy. But in fact, this is not so, and as proof of this statement, it is worth saying that Virgos are the same owners in relationships as Aries and Scorpios...

How Virgo men manifest jealousy:

Virgo men are reserved, calm, try not to show emotions once again, and keep everything to themselves. But this happens only until a certain moment. And this moment usually becomes the case when jealousy begins to receive at least some facts of justification.

Virgo men are jealous aggressively, emotionally, but only when there are real reasons for jealousy. Otherwise, the representative of this zodiac sign will never show any signs of jealousy. After all, this can destroy his image, authority, and turn him into an insecure jealous man in the eyes of his beloved woman, which is unacceptable for Virgo.

But when there are real reasons for concern, the Virgo man is no longer able to endure. At such moments, he can speak directly to his beloved, and not in the best way. He can be rude in a fit of anger, start asking uncomfortable questions, directly start talking about his distrust, and in general, add a lot of uncomfortable and unwanted topics to the scandal.

Believe me, if you are a woman living with a Virgo man, then it is better for you not to give reasons for jealousy and suspicion, because then you will have to "sort out" the consequences for a very long time, almost until old age. Virgo man will never forget such a feeling as jealousy, even if it did not receive real confirmation in the end, and will remind you of it until the very end.

In addition, the seed of jealousy and suspicion once planted in the Virgo's mind will never disappear and will only grow as new reasons for jealousy arise. Over time, it can already grow into real distrust, with the appearance of which such problems can begin in relations with a representative of this unusual zodiac sign that not every couple is able to cope with.

So, it is better not to give him reasons to be jealous of you, which is actually not so difficult. By the way, Virgo's jealousy can sometimes be beneficial for relationships. The fact is that in the case of this sign, as with Cancer, jealousy can make a man think about his own mistakes and push him to take actions to correct them. He may start to reconsider his behavior, take some really important steps to change the relationship for the better.

However, there is one "but" - in order to direct his jealousy in this direction, you must first of all not overdo it. Remember, there is only one step from jealousy to distrust...

How to behave with a jealous Virgo man:

 

  • Never start making excuses, because excuses will make the problem worse;
  • Try to be in his sight - let him know that you are not hiding anything;
  • Do not try to be a mystery at such moments - it will only harm the relationship;
  • Talk to him more on topics that you would not talk to anyone else about;
  • Give him more compliments, elevate him against the background of other men.


How to deal with a jealous Virgo man:

It is generally easy to get rid of Virgo's jealousy, but only if the jealousy is not caused by provocation or lies. If he catches you in a lie or suspects you of cheating, then it will be much more difficult to get rid of all this.

But if he is jealous of you for a man you are simply friends with, or for a job that you are late for for legitimate reasons, then even the most standard methods will help you. For example, the standard "tactic of exaggeration" works on Virgos. Exaggerate all his merits, admire his achievements, praise him for no reason, let him see that you are happy with his every step, his every action. This will add to his self-confidence and deprive him of even the chance of thinking that you might like someone else in something more than him.

And of course, one of the best ways is to voluntarily come to terms with the loss of freedom and rights to personal space. As mentioned above, Virgo men are possessive by nature. And if a woman has already become a property, voluntarily deprived of freedom and independence, then it would be foolish to be jealous - such is the simple and unpretentious logic...

How to make him jealous:

If you need to make a Virgo man jealous, then first of all, understand and remember once and for all the main rule - do not overdo it. Never and under no circumstances give reasons for distrust, do not plant the seed of distrust and suspicion in his mind - you will regret it. You need to achieve Virgo's jealousy by the simplest, least effective, but standard actions. Delays from work, a little secrecy and mystery, citing the example of the husbands of friends and acquaintances - all this can awaken jealousy in Virgo.

However, it will be extremely difficult to find out about it. But this is not necessary - just know that any of the above actions on your part will definitely make him jealous. And when this happens, the first symptom will be interrogation, followed by sharp changes in his behavior (attempts to work on himself, etc.).