What are they like?
It is worth noting right away that Gemini women belong to the category of the most unpredictable representatives of the female half of humanity. They are spontaneous, mysterious, unpredictable, irresponsible and fickle, constantly changing goals, unable to concentrate on one thing and endlessly searching for new sensations.
They always need more and more: today she is content with a new friend, and tomorrow she is looking for new acquaintances; now she loves the next gentleman and seeks him out by all means, and in a moment she will switch to another. And so it is in everything, without exception.
A Gemini woman can find her calling, her favorite occupation, hobby, do something that brings her pleasure, and in a moment she will feel bored and start looking for something new. Well, these ladies are not capable of being constant, and they cannot decide what they need.
The goals of these ladies are blurred, as are the methods of achieving them, their life paths are too vague, their heads are always filled with a lot of ideas and plans for the future.
It is no less interesting that it is almost impossible to please these women. They are always dissatisfied with something. Today she is head over heels in love with her man, and tomorrow she will start trying to change him, re-educate him, talking about her dissatisfaction with some of his habits, hobbies and preferences.
If you have chosen such a woman as your wife, and if this representative of the zodiac sign has reciprocated your feelings, then there is only one thing left to do - to advise you to gather your strength and patience, because life with her will be like a roller coaster, always veering from one side to the other.
General characteristics:
Gemini wives are amazing by their nature. They are naturally sociable, communicative, eloquent, interesting and mysterious. Everyone is interested in these women, which is not surprising, because they know how to charm and are able to make friends even where many cannot.
If a Gemini girl has become your wife, and if you have already been able to understand her, to figure her out, then know that you are lucky, because you will not find a better woman for the role of a wife. But she is not the best in everything - Gemini wives are good in terms of relationships, femininity, care and attention, they are mysterious and attractive, attract attention to themselves and always correspond to the environment, but at the same time they are mostly good wives only in terms of intimacy with their husband. In other areas of married life, these ladies are not very good. But more on that later...
Faithful or not? This is an eternal question, but alas, it is practically impossible to answer it with 100% accuracy in the case of representatives of this zodiac sign. On the one hand, Gemini wives are ready to be faithful and devoted to their husbands to the end, and they know the value of family ties, but on the other hand, they are too dependent on male attention, they simply need to be in the attention of the surrounding men in order to feel their need, their feminine strength, their "I". Therefore, do not be surprised if you witness flirting or defiant behavior. And you should not be jealous in vain either...
It is worth noting that with age, the behavior of a Gemini wife can change dramatically, almost beyond recognition. Over time, they turn into homebodies, housewives and simply excellent wives. But one has only to hint to such a lady about an adventure, a trip, or simply spending time outside the house, and she will immediately turn into the same active and energetic girl she once was.
By the way, you, as the husband of a Gemini wife, will have a very difficult time living together with a representative of this zodiac sign. Firstly, you will have to pay too much attention to her "ego" so that she does not stop feeling like the princess you need. Secondly, she will always be dissatisfied with everything in you, which means that you will need to work on yourself all the time. And thirdly, it will be difficult because of the extravagance of the Gemini wife - they are also very spendthrift.
How to behave:
- Pay more attention to her "ego";
- Do not let the "candy-bouquet" period of your relationship end;
- Keep the relationship in good shape all the time;
- Do not encroach on her personal space, give her more freedom;
- Do not try to lock her in a golden cage - she will quickly wither like a flower without water;
- Do not stop working on yourself...
In the household:
The first thing a man who has acquired a Gemini wife should know is that these women are mostly incredible spenders. Money melts in the hands of these ladies like snow on the palm, it disappears faster than it appears. Moreover, in most cases, purchases are not so effective and profitable that money would be spent on them. But there is nothing to be done about it - the representatives of this zodiac sign simply do not know how to save money, they are born to spend, not to save.
As for the household itself, there are also problems here. If we talk about a young Gemini wife, then she is not at all capable of becoming a хозяйка (mistress). With age, these women change, and a more mature woman can completely immerse herself in everyday life at the very beginning, trying to appear to her husband as a real, good хозяйка. But the essence still overcomes these ladies, and in the end, such a woman will still give up the idea of becoming a good хозяйка and will live to the fullest, not locking herself in the four walls of everyday life.
But when a child is born, the Gemini woman changes beyond recognition. This is where all its hidden potential can be revealed. She can become an excellent хозяйка, a caring mother and wife, become a person she has never been before. But again, there are exceptions, so you should not indulge yourself with hopes for the best in advance, especially since Gemini women do not have the makings of thriftiness by nature.
Pregnant:
Pregnant Gemini women are a unique category of women. Representatives of this zodiac sign begin to empty stores of children's things from the very beginning and prepare for the birth of a child. With such a future mother, you, as a husband, will have to go to children's stores from the first trimester of pregnancy, look at playpens and other children's furniture, choose potty chairs and think about accumulating diapers. In general, you will definitely not have peace with a pregnant Gemini...
It is also important that during pregnancy, Gemini women become too sensitive and tremulous. They listen to their body, become overly anxious and sensitive, are afraid to even move once again, so as not to harm the fetus. These are who-who, and pregnant Gemini mothers are the real children. Here you, as a husband, will have to calm down, and dissuade, and not sleep at night because of her tears and tantrums, and run to the store for fruits at night.
Mother and her children:
There is no need to talk a lot about the motherhood of Gemini mothers. First of all, it is worth saying that they are in many ways ideal mothers. A Gemini mother will always listen to her child, understand, support, cheer up, and calm down if necessary. With such a mother, any child is guaranteed to be happy, because she will surely surround her child with attention, care and love.
But there is one small problem. It lies in the fact that Gemini mothers are not able to be serious and responsible in terms of upbringing. Yes, they pay enough attention to their children, love them and care for them, but as soon as it comes to upbringing and responsibility, Gemini mothers quickly withdraw. Here the father will already have to come into play...
Advantages of Gemini mothers:
- Caring
- Gentle
- Attentive
- Cheerful
- They pay maximum attention to children
- They always listen to their children to the end
- They are ready to show maximum patience
Disadvantages of Gemini mothers:
- They are not capable of taking responsibility
- They are afraid of making a mistake in upbringing
- They put all the responsible tasks and questions concerning children on their fathers
