The character of a Gemini man
In today's world, there are not so many women who can resist the passion and charm of a man born under the zodiac sign of Gemini. However, there are not so many people who can resist getting closer, communicating and making friends with such a man. Unpredictability, determination and incredible self-control with the ability to control their own emotions are traits that one cannot but admire. Such people simply cannot help but attract others to them. But, as with any other sign, there must be both advantages and disadvantages...
Positive Traits of a Gemini Man
Gemini men possess many virtues, but some of the main ones are their communicativeness and their ability to find a positive moment in everything. They are cheerful and positive, optimistic, always in a good mood, and they try not to burden anyone with their own problems or failures.
Communicating with a Gemini man has no downsides. It is fun with him, there will always be something to do, he is full of ideas. They try to get everything they can out of life. His resourcefulness and natural charm contribute to the brightness of life and general joy.
Friendliness also cannot be attributed to the merits. Gemini men easily make contact, are always ready to meet new people, do not repel new people, but on the contrary, try to learn as much as possible about them. Communication, and more of it - this is the goal of Gemini.
Imagination and excellent imagination. They never sit idle, they fantasize all the time, come up with something new, Gemini men have so many ideas that other people will not come up with in their entire lives. Plus, such guys are usually inclined to the humanities, and often they are also literary.
Organizational skills, leadership, the ability to organize people into one "backbone". These men know how to manage the crowd and easily subordinate it to themselves. But the most important thing is not even this, but the ability to find a way out of any situation, which is why the crowd usually tries to focus on Gemini in the end.
Negative Traits of a Gemini Man
The main drawback of a Gemini man is his inability to be serious, complemented by inconstancy, unpredictability, and independence. He is fickle and frivolous, he values his freedom more than anything in the world - it is not easy to achieve seriousness from him in an important matter, and it is also almost impossible to predict his actions. They cannot stand monotony and cannot sit still, they are uncontrollable and with difficulty control even their own behavior. It is better not to force Gemini to live by the rules, in combination with monotony and uniformity - sooner or later he will explode, and then everyone can suffer from his energy.
Suspiciousness and distrust are manifested in everything, both in communication with people and in relations with the opposite se--x. Do not think that he believes in everything, he just may not show his distrust, keep it inside himself. These are very distrustful men, suspicious, not believing in human devotion.
Gemini man in career
Gemini men can be very successful in their careers, but they often don't because they prioritize fun and entertainment over career growth and financial well-being. They are afraid to take responsibility for other people, afraid to be leaders, and try to stay away from power.
Another significant disadvantage is that men born under the zodiac sign Gemini are unable to soberly assess their chances of success. They constantly set unattainable goals for themselves, dream of something incomprehensible, something that is difficult to achieve even for the most organized person. This ultimately leads to failures in their careers and career advancement. Although, again, everything is individual...
Gemini men are quick-witted, easily take initiative, and are hardworking, but they lack perseverance. This is why they may have problems at work. They often abandon unfinished business, often give up when faced with obstacles, and do not have the excitement that is necessary for career growth and complete success.
However, there is also a positive side - despite their lack of perseverance, they are excellent at following instructions, and this is also worth a lot. And another reason why a Gemini man may suffer endless failures in his work is his fear of making a mistake. They have a hard time going through any failures, they react too painfully to criticism and do not like being blamed for anything, including failures, and ridiculed in front of everyone. The slightest criticism or ridicule can plunge Gemini into a prolonged and difficult depression.
Gemini man in communication
If you believe in horoscopes, then you should know that Gemini men are loyal friends and comrades, the kind you have to look for. Inability to betray or lie, cunning, but only for good, unselfishness, the ability to listen and empathize, willingness to sacrifice their own good for a friend - these are the traits that make Gemini men very popular in society and valued as friends.
However, there is one "but" here - they are vindictive and do not forgive offenses to people they relied on but were mistaken in the end. Unlike many other men, Gemini do not try to find friends who are inferior to them in anything. On the contrary, a Gemini man tries to find a friend who is equal to him, especially in an intellectual sense. They like to feel "in their element", to be equal to their friends, not to surpass them.
However, one big drawback cannot be ignored. The horoscope warns that a Gemini man is not the kind of person whose promises can be relied on. But do not think that they are unreliable on purpose! No! On the contrary, the opposite is often observed! The reason for this is, again, a lack of perseverance, irresponsibility, and restlessness, and most importantly, an inability to soberly assess their capabilities and abilities.
But they always have a lot of ideas, their imagination is limitless, they are always positive, optimistic in any situation, spread positiveness and confidence in the future around them. Such a man can make even a person in complete despair laugh.
Loyalty, honesty, generosity, inability to betray, the ability to support with words and deeds - these are the traits that make Gemini always have many friends and like-minded people.
Gemini man in love
Love for a Gemini guy is an empty phrase until a certain time. He can talk beautifully and charm with his behavior, court and give compliments with or without reason, but do not think that he is in love. On the contrary, if there is love in the heart of Gemini, he behaves completely differently. Until then, he will shine with compliments and courtship, show maximum charm and charm with every move. Such people like the process itself, but not love as such. He has no equal in beautiful words. It may even seem that there is sincerity in his eyes and love in his heart. But it is not so. In fact, in love, he will behave more constrained, more shy. But at the stage of falling in love, the Gemini guy becomes a male, courteous, sweet, charming, a real gentleman.
However, all Gemini men have a very changeable mood in terms of love. Today they give maximum attention, and tomorrow they forget about the one whose attention they wanted to attract yesterday. Plus, as mentioned earlier, they are very fickle. Most of them fit the traditional description of a "womanizer". You should not count on a serious relationship with a young Gemini, and even more so on their longevity.
To make such a man fall in love, you will have to "sweat" a lot. And do not think that he will be attracted by your homeliness or thriftiness. You won't get him with that! He needs a cheerful, optimistic, positive companion. Only in the case of 100% compatibility in terms of characters can love arise. And even then, it is not a fact that it will be eternal.
Gemini man in bed
In bed, the Gemini man is a person with incredible acting skills, an actor who loves to watch himself from the outside, wanting it to be not only "good" but also "beautiful". Making love with the lights off and under a thick blanket is not for him - all of this can only alienate him. But in bed, he has no shortage of imagination and creativity, courage and initiative. And to his great surprise, he likes not those who are like him, but those whom he can surprise with something.
Do not think that the Gemini man is interested in the pleasure and satisfaction of his partner in bed. Fantasizing, surprising, showing ingenuity and passion, he first of all satisfies his own thirst for new experiences. Of course, compatibility in this case also plays an important role, but this is not the main factor.
And also, in bed, the Gemini guy can be cunning and dishonest. Although, this is perhaps the only place where they can manifest themselves. Faking pleasure for him is something simple and ordinary.
Gemini man in marriage
Marriage with Gemini men is very difficult, and it's not about infidelity or inconstancy, but about the fact that they are afraid of creating a family like fire. Especially unlucky will be the woman who falls in love with a Gemini born in the month of May. May Gemini guys are completely "anti-family", they prefer to stay single for a longer time, they are afraid of losing their independence and freedom.
But the month of June can bring a lot of good to a marriage with a man born under the sign of Gemini. Such a man can eventually become an excellent husband, devoted and faithful. However, there must be complete compatibility, and this applies not only to the characters of the halves, but also to bed.
In general, if love is raging in such a man, and if there is compatibility, then the marriage will be strong. He is fire, and he will never let the marital passion fade away.
Gemini man as a father, parent
To say that Gemini men can be good fathers is to lie. They rarely become truly caring fathers who know everything about their children. They rarely devote themselves to care and upbringing - for them, children are more like little friends, comrades. Yes, they are full of fatherly love. As a father, a Gemini man is not ideal, but he has enough love for ten. The wife only needs to interest him, talk about the children's successes, make him understand that he is missing a lot of important and interesting things - then everything will change.
Even being divorced from the mother of his children, he will never forget them, he will not leave them to their fate. Children of Gemini fathers can always count on their father's support, love, understanding, and attention. Cheerful, inventive, a dreamer, what to look for - children will never be bored with him. He may not be ideal as a father, but he is definitely ideal as a best friend for his children.
How to please Gemini men
If you believe in horoscopes, there are a few things you can do to attract a Gemini man.
- First, you need to be interesting. Gemini men are attracted to women who are intelligent, curious, and have a lot to talk about. Be sure to keep the conversation flowing and don't be afraid to show off your knowledge.
- Second, be unpredictable. Gemini men love a good mystery. Keep him guessing by changing your hair, your clothes, or your makeup. Surprise him with a new date idea or a spontaneous trip.
- Third, be confident. Gemini men are attracted to women who are confident in themselves and their abilities. Don't be afraid to show off your strengths and don't let him see you sweat.
- Fourth, be independent. Gemini men don't want a woman who needs them for everything. Be your own person and have your own interests. Show him that you can take care of yourself and that you don't need him to complete you.
- Fifth, be playful. Gemini men love to have fun. Be playful and flirty and keep him laughing. Show him that you enjoy life and that you're up for anything.
If you can follow these tips, you'll be well on your way to attracting a Gemini man.
