Cancerian Woman's Character
According to the horoscope, in early childhood, a Cancerian girl is usually distinguished by excessive tearfulness, touchiness, vulnerability, and capriciousness. They constantly take offense at something and cry all the time. At the same time, they also have a share of optimism with a positive attitude. They have fun, come up with things to do, and are always busy with something. For a Cancerian child, and specifically for a girl, a cozy atmosphere in the house is important, so that there is peace and order, and that there are no quarrels. This child may be too sensitive to any troubles in the family, to any discord. To such a baby, any problem seems insurmountable, big, huge. It is important for them to feel the care, love, and devotion of their parents.
On the other hand, Cancerian girls are very positive and love to talk, especially with their mom and dad. However, with age, everything can change, and not only the advantages will appear. But also the disadvantages.
Character Strengths
The horoscope says that the main advantage of Cancerian women is their ability to overcome difficulties. A Cancerian woman may not be a master of her craft, and may not have leadership qualities, but she will always meet any obstacles and difficulties with dignity. Determination and a desire to surprise everyone around her will not allow her to abandon her work or be afraid of problems. They always achieve their goals, even if not immediately, and not quickly, but обязательно. They are excellent performers, obligatory, diligent, principled, hardworking, and persistent.
Another advantage belongs mainly to Cancerian women born under the patronage of a month like July. July ladies are also promised leadership qualities, which, on the contrary, June ladies always lack. Such a woman can achieve great heights in her career, become a boss and even a good leader. However, there is one "but" - a favorable atmosphere and respect from colleagues are important. Otherwise, she may feel too insecure...
Conflict-free, unwillingness to quarrel, a desire to get along with everyone and be in good relations - another advantage of Cancerian women. They never get involved in scandals, do not quarrel without a specific reason, and even if there is a reason, they try to settle any conflict before it turns into a scandal.
Character Flaws
The biggest flaw that the Zodiac sign Cancer gives to all women is the constant fear of making mistakes, which results in indecision and insecurity. Such women are afraid of making mistakes all their lives and try to make as few decisions as possible that could affect their position in society.
Another flaw, according to the horoscope, is the inability to react здраво to criticism. Even an ordinary lesson can seem like offensive criticism and reproach to a Cancerian woman.
The inability to admit one's own guilt, which turns into lies. Cancers never admit their guilt, they can consciously lie, deceive, cheat, but they will never admit their guilt, even if it is obvious to everyone.
Career
A woman born under the sign of Cancer, especially in July, is always a thrifty, cautious, and therefore money-oriented person. Cancer is completely devoid of any career aspirations; this sign does not need to become a leader to feel useful and needed. Such women need only a goal, and this usually becomes the desire to surprise others and be showered with compliments.
Accuracy, reliability, diligence, responsibility, determination, and caution - all these qualities help a Cancerian woman become a good specialist in her chosen field. At the same time, a Cancerian woman can occupy a niche in a wide variety of fields of activity - it can be photography, design, music, or activities related to real estate and advertising.
As for the attitude towards money, everything is simple here. Such a lady will never set herself the main goal of getting rich. No, Cancer can be tempted by money, but not so much that this person will make sacrifices for the sake of wealth. If you put her in front of a choice of "money or family", then here, be sure, the choice will be given to the family.
Yes, for a Cancerian woman, personal development and material well-being are important, but not so much that she would sacrifice her personal happiness for them. Nevertheless, having become a leader, boss, or middle manager, a Cancerian woman will definitely show herself from the best side. She will never let her boss down, will not leave her specialists and colleagues without help, will help everyone and help everyone.
However, there is one "but" - her emotional impulses and desire to please everyone can lead to serious consequences. And many people may start to take advantage of her kindness, which will bring incredible harm to her and her emotional state.
Communication with People
First of all, it is worth noting that a Cancerian woman is an excellent friend and comrade, a person you can rely on in any situation. You can never expect betrayal or lies, self-interest or deception from such a person. Cancerian women devote themselves completely to their friends and comrades. They are excellent conversationalists and listeners, they always listen to their interlocutors, help them, and give advice. It is easy to be friends with them and work together. Rest assured, the Cancerian girl hiding behind your back is a reliable support, waiting for the moment when you need her.
Dislikes misers and stingy people. She tries to avoid communicating with them. She carefully selects people from her environment and decisively and harshly rejects those who do not suit her in some way. Be sure that if she communicates with you, then you suit her in everything - she will not communicate with a person who has something that irritates her.
Vulnerable, sensitive, and touchy. She reacts sharply to any criticism. She needs endless compliments, encouragement, and recognition of her perfection. A friend, like a boyfriend, should constantly show a Cancerian woman how important the relationship with her is. Otherwise, she may feel unnecessary and start looking for a new friend who is more loyal.
Unrestrained fun and positiveness. The horoscope claims that such a person will never be friends with a boring and negative person. Yes, you will never expect initiative from her, she will never be the first to offer to have fun or have fun, but she will never refuse someone else's offer. For her, communication with people, fun, positiveness, and new experiences are worth their weight in gold.
July Cancers are also characterized by arrogance. And pride is also present. But you never know what quality to expect next minute.
In love
For a Cancer woman, love is not just a word, an empty sound, or a feeling that defies understanding. For her, love is first and foremost the willingness to give herself completely and entirely to her beloved, to dedicate herself to him, and to give him her love and feelings.
If you are compatible, then you are lucky. She will do anything for her soulmate - she will give compliments at the right time, show her feelings, support, caress and please him. She will dedicate her whole life to her partner, the one she loves.
Romance and passion also make themselves known in love and relationships with a Cancer woman. She is so romantic and passionate that it can sometimes be dizzying. And God forbid you start rejecting her love - in that case she will quickly turn from a feminine and innocent person into a dry and tough one, and moreover, in that case you should not count on her loyalty and devotion. A new man and love for him will not be long in coming.
Another important point is the sensitivity of the Cancer woman. If love burns in her heart, you will immediately see it, at least by her behavior and her ability to guess your mood. Such women are very sensitive to any changes in their partner's life. Are you feeling bad? Are you worried or afraid of something? Suffering from depression? Rest assured, she will notice it, without the slightest hint of it from you.
In relationships, Cancer women like stability, predictability, and constancy. If you belong to the category of people who crave adventure and excitement, then you are definitely not for her. Such ladies need calm, restrained, not too emotional men who are ready to show patience, soften or harden at the right time. A Cancer girl needs a man who can adapt to the situation.
And the main thing - vindictiveness and rancor. Do not think that you are facing a weak-willed lady who is ready to endure everything. She may show calmness and endure your betrayals, but she will not forgive them for sure. Moreover, she will cherish the desire for revenge in her soul for a long time, nurture plans for revenge and think through everything to the smallest detail, and then simply inflict a crushing blow on you, one that will leave you with a soul wound forever. Be careful - these women are mostly strong and cunning.
In bed
In bed, a Cancer woman values passion, romance, candlelight dinners, gentle movements and predictability, touch and closeness, and compatibility in character and behavior. This is where they open up to the fullest and feel confident. Their actions are a bit slow, but decisive. The man a Cancer woman is in love with is very lucky, because she will do everything possible to satisfy him and make him feel like he is in seventh heaven.
However, you should not expect experiments or anything new in bed. Cancer women are mostly not like that. They wait for initiative from their partner and never take it themselves. Although there are exceptions.
At first, it may seem that she is too shy, naive, slow and timid. She can flirt with her beloved man for hours, urging him to action. But in bed, she can turn into a match that quickly ignites and, in the case of unrequited passion, quickly goes out.
Cancer women in marriage
Cancer women often get married when they are in love, at the peak of their feelings, without thinking about the consequences and idealizing their partner. The man, on the other hand, needs to do everything possible to keep the Cancer woman the way she was at the very beginning. By showing disrespect, cheating on her, or starting to offend her, a man can doom himself to torment in family life with her. A Cancer woman will not forgive an insult, and for the sake of revenge for it, she will even sacrifice family happiness and her own love.
In the household, when married to a beloved man, Cancer wives usually show themselves to be as economically as possible. They are excellent housewives, always striving for perfection in everything. They may not always succeed, but they will not give up. They are not "clubbers" who do not value their freedom - they are family angels who try to devote themselves to their family.
In the event of a family discord for a minor reason (the main thing is that it is not a betrayal), the Cancer wife will fight for the strength of the family and marriage to the very end. They do not give up at the first opportunity, for them constancy and strength of relationships are important.
Cancer women as mothers
A Cancer woman can be called a model of motherhood. This is because she always feels excessive love for her children. She has a strong maternal instinct and will sacrifice everything for her children. However, it should also be noted that the care and love of a Cancer mother is often too strong, so much so that it can seem like an obsession.
After the birth of a child, the spouse may feel that his wife is becoming distant from him. This is not the case. It is simply that for Cancer women, married life and everything else takes a backseat to the arrival of a child in the family. Over time, maternal love may cool down a bit, but you will have to be patient until then.
Cancer mothers do not let their children go into independent life for a long time. Their children often become too "mama's boys". That is why it is difficult for children of Cancer mothers in adulthood - they are rarely adapted to it.
How to attract a Cancer woman
It is quite simple to please a Cancer woman. In most cases, it is enough to follow the rules below:
- Never criticize or lecture her.
- Be a little mysterious, but don't overdo it.
- Show her your admiration for her often.
- Be successful and confident in her eyes.
- Show your masculine dignity, character, and true masculine nature.
- Don't let the candy-bouquet period end.
- Be a romantic and passionate lover.
Can you handle it? Then the Cancer woman will definitely pay attention to you. But remember, you must be compatible in everything, without exception.