How to Attract a Cancerian Man
If you are looking for a man who can be a good husband, a great boyfriend, an excellent father, and simply your patron, then a Cancerian man is just what you need. With such men, you can build strong relationships, create an atmosphere of balance and harmony, and in general, any woman with such a man can become happy.
However, no matter what, you will have to "sweat" a lot at first, winning his favor, especially if he has already managed to like someone, and you have not yet managed to win his sympathy.
Do you want to attract a Cancerian man and build a relationship with him? Well, then our instructions will definitely help you:
Be like his mother. Cancerian men are usually very attached to their mothers and look for women who are similar to them. No, not in appearance, but in their actions, in their attitude to the whims of Cancer himself, in their care and attention to his problems.
Become a great listener. Cancerian men's attitude to life is such that they dream more than they act, and you, as a woman, need to come to terms with this. If you become a good and attentive listener, you will be able to endure his endless dreams without criticism. Then you will surely win his heart.
Try to take the initiative. Cancers are attracted to women who are strong, experienced, active, and proactive. Try to take the initiative in everything, to be a heroine in his eyes.
Don't overdo it with coquetry. These men do not like coquettes, on the contrary, they avoid them. Do not try to flirt with him on the first dates - you will push him away. In general, try to be just yourself, without tricks, without falsehood, just the way you are. Cancerian men are looking for an ideal, but most of all they love women who are pure and honest. It is better not to meet his requirements, but to be honest - believe me, it will be easier for him to come to terms with this.
Cancerian Men in Relationships
In a relationship, a Cancerian man can show himself to be a true hero, a knight in shining armor, a romantic, passionate, and very loving. Yes, that's what Cancers are like in relationships. Once conquered by his chosen one, they do everything to be a hero in the eyes of their beloved. Huge bouquets of flowers for no reason, a romantic candlelight dinner on the most ordinary day, tenderness and care, romance, warmth, and closeness - don't be surprised when all of this starts to appear in your relationship with him in large quantities.
Petty and picky - yes, Cancerian men in relationships, especially after the candy-bouquet stage, become too picky. They become so petty and picky that it can even be annoying. An unshaven hair on his leg, smeared lipstick after a kiss, a poorly wiped plate, or something else like that - anything can become a reason for this person to pick on you. Get ready for the fact that your every move will be under surveillance. Stock up on patience and endure - it will eventually end...
The resentment of Cancerian men in relationships often creates a lot of problems. Remember, he is a Cancer, he can at any moment retreat, away from problems, and then you will not be able to get him back. Do not hurt his feelings, his male ego, otherwise he will start to distance himself from you and eventually just leave. Especially since before marriage, these representatives of the strong half of humanity do not bind themselves to relationships. For them, there is nothing simpler than leaving one woman for another.
How to keep him:
- Support him in all his initiatives and endeavors.
- Try to live up to his ideals - copy his mother.
- Become caring and attentive, live by his problems.
- Do not make scandals against the background of his pettiness and pickiness.
- Never hurt his dignity, his male ego.
- Do not leave his actions unattended.
- Do not give him any reason to suspect you of infidelity.
- Spend more time with him alone.
How to Marry a Cancerian Man
Only a woman who understands the peculiarities of his character will be able to marry a Cancerian man. All Cancers are unique in their own way. In general, yes, they are romantic, all of them are petty and picky, and all appreciate femininity in women. But at the same time, each of them also has their own personal characteristics. But if the idea of marrying him has already consumed you, then it's time to act...
The first step, and the most important one, is to become similar in behavior to his mother. Give him maximum attention, don't ignore his problems and worries, show him how responsible and serious you are. The image of a mother in the eyes of a Cancer is the image of an ideal wife - remember this.
As for marriage, here you will have to act, and even decisively. But you can't push. Cancer will not tolerate pressure, but will not act without a hint. Show him with your appearance that you are waiting for a proposal of marriage from him, and then he will make it. Otherwise, a Cancer man may want and will want to marry you, but will be afraid to make the first step - they are mostly timid and afraid of being rejected.
Cancerian Men in Marriage
All zodiac signs behave differently in marriage. But Cancers are a separate category of people altogether. If a Cancerian man is married to you, know that he will never regret it. But what are they like, Cancerian men in marriage?
It's actually quite simple. First of all, they are mostly good fathers, caring and gentle husbands, and men devoted to their families. They are very attached to their family and will never leave it, even if there is a real reason to do so. "Family ties" are more than just a phrase for Cancers.
If you have married one, then accept all his numerous relatives. They are all important to Cancers, and as soon as you start criticizing any of them, quarreling with someone, or simply avoiding communication with them, believe me, your relationship with your spouse will also change, and not for the better. Accept him and his whole family for who they are.
And most importantly, never belittle his dignity. Yes, he will not answer you rudely, he will not take revenge for the offense, but he will turn away from you and will gradually distance himself from you, move away. Be careful with criticism and edification, with nit-picking and remarks about his personality.
