How Cancer men manifest jealousy:
If you have met a Cancer man and are now planning to connect your life with him, then get ready for a ride of unprecedented jealousy - believe me, you have never met such a jealous and scandalous person as Cancer.
It would seem that Cancers hide from all problems and ignore all troubles, hiding in their shell and trying to pretend that nothing happened. But no, in the case of jealousy, everything is not so. A jealous Cancer man will never hide his jealousy. He will not be silent, but will say everything at once, right in the face, and in a way that is clearly not in the usual conversational form. He will declare his feelings in a loud voice, with shouting, with a scandal, with hysterics...
But a jealous Cancer does not behave this way because he is aggressive, but only because by his nature he is an owner in a relationship, albeit a moderate one, not like Aries, for example, but still. He will never allow anyone to come between him and his soulmate, and if there is even the slightest reason to be jealous, he will immediately use it.
At the same time, you should not immediately expect him to admit his jealousy. At first he will be silent, wait for a while, come up with as many reasons as possible to be nervous, and then he will tell you everything that is on his mind at that moment. And do not be surprised if even ordinary communication with another man will be presented by Cancer himself as a real betrayal - representatives of this zodiac sign are natural dreamers.
Scandals, tantrums, resentments without cause or reason, dissatisfaction with your behavior, nit-picking and criticism - all these are signs of Cancer's jealousy. He may not say it right away, but he will be jealous, and this will make him suffer, which will lead to the fact that he will be dissatisfied with everything without exception.
If your husband is a representative of such a zodiac sign as Cancer, and if you want to save the relationship, then it is better never to give even the slightest and insignificant reasons for jealousy. If you are talking to other men, then preferably in his presence, if you admire someone, then keep it to yourself, and if you say compliments to someone, then let this "someone" be your Cancer-spouse. This way you will protect both your soulmate from nervous breakdowns and your relationship from breaking up.
How to behave with a jealous Cancer man:
- Do not give him even a chance to think about jealousy or betrayal;
- Do not stop admiring him, give him more compliments;
- Do not resist his possessive inclinations - submit to him;
- Talk to him more on intimate topics;
- Never talk about your ex-boyfriends.
How to deal with a jealous Cancer man:
Getting rid of a Cancer man's jealousy is easy. All you need to do if he has already started to be jealous is to surround him with attention and care, show all your femininity and tenderness, become for him a person who is satisfied with everything in him. If he feels like the best, loved, ideal and needed, then he will not be jealous, at least not until there is a real reason for it. And in general, give him more compliments - after all, these are the men about whom they say, "they love with their ears."
As mentioned earlier, never try to resist his possessive inclinations. Cancers are owners in relationships, they want a woman to belong to them entirely, to obey and listen. If you resist, you will be met with distrust, but if on the contrary you start to obey him, then even the jealousy that has already arisen in his head will disappear. And just talk to him more about the most secret intimate topics. Let him know that you are ready to talk to him about everything without exception, let him know that you are honest. Then there will be much less reason for distrust and jealousy.
How to make him jealous:
Sometimes, on the contrary, it will be useful in a relationship with a Cancer man not to get rid of, but to achieve jealousy. Jealousy can make a Cancer man work on himself and the relationship, make him move, change, strive for the best. It motivates Cancers to act, creates in them a desire to become better. And by the way, you can make such a man jealous in three ways.
The first and most effective way is to become secretive, mysterious, enigmatic. Let him think that you are hiding something from him. Try to talk to him less about topics that are interesting to both of you. Neglect his attention - this will make him think about the presence of a rival.
The second way is elementary neglect of common interests. Find a new hobby, do something that he doesn't like. Sudden changes in your behavior will also make him think.
And the third way is simple. Start giving him examples of other men, telling him how you admire the actions of your friends' men, or even mention "ex" in passing. Believe me, the result will not be long in coming. Just don't overdo it...
