Cancer Men: What Are They Like?
Reserved, kind, good-natured, and friendly, soft and gentle, always one step ahead of everyone and thinking through every action in detail, so as not to make a mistake anywhere - that's what they are, adult Cancer men. It is not surprising that with such men, women in most cases build long-lasting, strong relationships, not for a day or two, but for a long time, often forever.
But if you are a dynamic, active woman, craving adventures, loving to travel, and wanting to get more out of life, then you are definitely not on the same path with such a man, because with him life will seem too boring for you.
It is worth building a relationship with an adult Cancer man only when the goal is to build a strong family. In this case, you will definitely be happy, because you will not have to worry about his going to bars (like with other men), and you will not have to catch him "on mistresses" - with a representative of this zodiac sign you will have a calm, measured, ordinary life, without problems and troubles.
But there is also one small "but" in relations with adult Cancer men. This "but" is the excessive demandingness of the second half. Representatives of this zodiac sign are not able to accept their second halves for who they are. Cancer husbands constantly demand changes from women, force them to change, and try to re-educate them to suit themselves.
But do not take it all personally - he will try to re-educate you not because you are somehow wrong, in his opinion, but because he wants to make you ideal, such that everyone would envy him, seeing you next to him. In return, you will get a trembling, sensitive, attentive, thoughtful, calculating, and reliable man.
Cancer Husbands: An Overview
Cancer husbands are excellent spouses, the dream of every serious girl. Calmness, restraint, thoughtfulness and prudence, the ability to compromise and give in, willingness to solve important problems and tasks, moderation, perseverance and optimism, intellectual development - this is far from a complete list of the qualities that are inherent in all Cancer husbands without exception.
In addition, they are mostly faithful, loyal and reliable men - with a Cancer husband you will not have to worry about loyalty, interrogate him or isolate him from the outside world in order to keep him faithful, because all this is in the order of things for him. So, if you want to build a normal family and achieve real female happiness, then a Cancer husband is exactly what you need.
Advantages of Cancer husbands:
- Loyal, faithful, reliable, responsible and committed
- Punctual and kind
- Good-natured and friendly
- Unprincipled, compliant and sociable
- Communicative
Disadvantages of Cancer husbands:
- Secretive and withdrawn
- Do not like to talk about their emotional experiences
- Try not to let anyone into their inner world
- Distrustful and need constant prodding, both in terms of development and in other areas
It is also worth noting that Cancer husbands are mostly very demanding of their other halves. Cancer is a romantic, gentle, passionate man. He is romantic and sensitive, but very demanding, and it is quite difficult to meet his criteria, the image of a wife that is built in his subconscious.
First, you need to have a very strong nervous system to withstand his moodiness and pickiness. Second, you must be an excellent housewife, like his mother in behavior, and a very caring wife. And third, you must be prepared for constant contact with him - to push him to act, to give him compliments, to support him in all his endeavors.
As for loyalty and devotion, divorce and relationships themselves, Cancer husbands are very principled here. Loyalty and devotion are indisputable factors for representatives of this sign. Divorce is an unacceptable topic even for an ordinary conversation. And the Cancer husband will cherish the relationship like the apple of his eye.
Advantages as a father:
- Responsible and committed
- Punctual and disciplined
- Ready to sacrifice a lot for the sake of children
- Puts their happiness above all else
- Devoted to children, faithful to them, will never leave them in trouble
Disadvantages as a father:
- Unable to prepare for adulthood
- Too demanding of children
- Not ready to take responsibility for upbringing
- Too dependent on children's mood
- May spoil the child too much
Overall, Cancer husbands can be great partners. They are loyal, devoted, and family-oriented. However, they can also be moody, emotional, and demanding. If you are willing to put in the effort, a relationship with a Cancer husband can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience.
Cancer Men as Fathers
Usually, all fathers stay within reasonable and logical limits - they provide for their children, buy them toys, and pay attention to their upbringing (the latter is not given to everyone). Cancer dads go beyond the generally accepted and give their children much more.
A Cancer father is a loving dad who wants not to miss a single moment in his child's life. Be it bad or good, wanting to fill his child's life with childhood memories and good impressions. In general, these are dads who can be set as an example for many others.
At the same time, Cancer dads are very disciplined, punctual, and reserved, and they try to teach their children the same. Moreover, they treat both daughters and sons equally - they do not care about gender, only the realization of the presence of their own blood in the child is important.
But as for upbringing, here the mother will have to make more efforts, because Cancer, due to the shortcomings of his character, is simply not able to adapt the child to real life and raise a person from him who is ready for any problems, obstacles, and troubles.
