The character of a Cancer man
The character of a Cancer man is very complex, and its complexity first begins to manifest itself in childhood. For example, a Cancer boy may have a very capricious and resentful character in childhood. The horoscope says that such children are prone to resentment, capriciousness, tantrums that arise out of nowhere, resentment out of nothing, secrecy, and isolation.
At the same time, even in childhood, Cancer children show maximum dependence on communication with people. They do not like loneliness and try to spend as much time as possible surrounded by children and peers. And it doesn't matter to them if there is real contact - it is important that someone is just there. But with age, everything changes, and an adult Cancer becomes completely different from the one who was in childhood...
Strengths of a Cancer Man
The main strength of a man born in June or July is his inability to act spontaneously or thoughtlessly. Cancer men carefully consider every action they take, do not make rash decisions, and plan everything in advance.
Tact, restraint, planning, and judgment are the main characteristics of adult Cancer men, and these are their main, but not only, advantages.
Another advantage of a Cancer man is his determination and perseverance. Yes, they can often be shy and indecisive, but if they set their mind to something, they don't let it go. A Cancer man just needs to gain a little self-confidence - then he will become truly successful. If a Cancer man achieves something, he will never let go of his success and will only consolidate it.
The ability to listen and eloquence - yes, men born under the sign of Cancer are very shy and suspicious, but if they start to communicate with someone, they give that person maximum attention. They are excellent conversationalists who always listen to people to the end, listen, empathize, and feel all the emotions of their interlocutors. You can share your experiences and grievances, secrets and even your deepest secrets with them.
Weaknesses of a Cancer Man
The main weakness of a Cancer man is his sensitivity and resentment. While a Cancer child may show his resentment openly, an adult Cancer man will never show his resentment to anyone. As a result, sooner or later, the resentment will accumulate and burst out like a rapid tornado, destroying everything in its path. It is better to avoid meeting with a representative of this zodiac sign at such moments.
Timidity, suspiciousness, and indecision - a whole bunch of shortcomings, isn't it? But they are inherent in the absolute majority of Cancer men. Their manifestation is based on an unwillingness to make responsible decisions, an inability to act spontaneously, and a planning approach that does not allow them to take actions that were not originally planned.
Secrecy is another disadvantage, but it manifests itself only in the fact that a Cancer man will never open up completely to anyone. That is why Cancers often have few friends.
Cancer man in career
Young Cancer men are in no hurry to leave the care of their parents. They are also in no hurry to choose a profession. However, the choice of profession depends primarily on the parents themselves - often Cancer men choose a profession that is the opposite of their parents'.
However, Cancer men can be successful in their careers. No, they do not become leaders, bosses, or managers, at least in most cases. But they do become good specialists in their field. They are especially motivated by the desire for material well-being and the respect of others. They are very dependent on the attitude of people towards them, and they are very dependent on their status in society and on public opinion.
Persistence and perseverance are very good qualities that are inherent in the majority of men born under the sign of Cancer, especially in the month of June. They never give up and always try to finish everything they start. They do not abandon unfinished business and show maximum diligence.
A conscientious attitude to work and diligence allow Cancers to achieve a lot in their chosen field of activity. The only thing that hinders them in their professional development is their lack of self-confidence and unwillingness to take responsibility for other people.
Basically, Cancer men choose professions related to the humanities. This can be philosophy, psychology, floriculture, law, medicine, or teaching. They love to communicate and choose professions that involve communication with people of all kinds and types. However, again, it all depends on the upbringing and profession of the parents.
Cancer man in communication
If you believe in horoscopes, then you will be interested to know that they say that Cancer men (and women) are overly sensitive. They do not like criticism or lectures, try to avoid conflictual people, react sharply to any mockery, and are prone to withdrawing into themselves.
Cancers are too sensitive and touchy. However, if a woman immediately expresses her resentment, a man will keep it to himself and only at the most crucial moment will he pour out all his resentment. But do not think that Cancer can become conflicted at such moments. On the contrary, Cancer men try to avoid conflicts, quickly end any conversations leading to conflict or quarrel, and generally avoid people who are prone to rudeness or quarrels. They also do not like those who try to dominate others.
But there is one huge plus of Cancer men - they are devoted friends and comrades, always ready to help and even sacrifice something important for the good of a friend. They will always listen, help, if not in word, then in deed, give advice, feel the resentment or experience together with the interlocutor - you can talk to them on any topic, being sure that no one will know about your conversation.
You should not force Cancer to take reckless actions or be spontaneous. They need time to think over each action, make the right decision, and think about the consequences. And this, perhaps, is the main benefit of communicating with a Cancer man. Having such a friend and comrade at hand, you will surely not be able to make a fatal mistake or make the wrong decision - he will definitely stop you.
As for new contacts, everything is complicated here. They seem to be always ready for new acquaintances and new faces in the company, but they always make contact with a new person very slowly and cautiously. Because of this, people often have the wrong opinion, and it is extremely difficult for the indecisive and inconspicuous Cancer to change it later.
Cancer man in love
As mentioned earlier, Cancer men are very emotional and sensitive. These traits cannot but affect such an important factor as love.
For example, in childhood, most of them are romantics, waiting for true love, love at first sight, to come into their lives. They imagine their future soulmate as ideal, exactly as they need them to be.
Love with Cancers is very complicated. They do not need a se--xual partner in the first place, but a friend and comrade, a person they can trust, with whom they can share any experience, secret, or mystery. Love for them is not an empty phrase. For Cancer men, love is trust, honesty, devotion, and loyalty, understanding, and mutual respect.
It is easy to push Cancer away from you - the phrase "from love to hate is one step" is very appropriate here. Moreover, hatred and dislike can be caused by a simple reason for jealousy. When jealous, Cancer starts to worry, rage, get nervous, and make mistakes. Often, it is jealousy, even sudden and far-fetched, that becomes the reason for breaking up with Cancer.
Cancer men are not very successful in courting. They are not inclined to aggressively conquer women's hearts, they are not capable of taking sharp and decisive steps. A woman who wants to win a Cancer man will have to make the first step. Only then will he begin to show himself as a gentleman. Otherwise, he may wait a long time for the right moment, but in the end, he may not approach the woman he likes or to whom he has already fallen in love.
These are the kind of guys Cancers are in love: amorous, jealous, but very indecisive and shy.
Cancer man in bed
In bed with a Cancer man, it is better not to talk about his shortcomings and keep all your dissatisfaction to yourself. At the slightest hint of dissatisfaction from his partner, he will withdraw from his beloved and go in search of a more loyal partner. Lovemaking plays a very important role for him, and it is important that there is 100% compatibility in it.
Do not expect experiments, passion, or unpredictability, spontaneity, or fantasy from Cancer in bed. They are shy and wait for the first step from their partner. However, if the partner takes the first step, then he will do everything in return to make her happy with him.
You should never tell him about his shortcomings in bed. Only by knowing that you have 100% compatibility will he become self-confident and passionate. Any doubts in himself will turn him into a snob, boring and insensitive.
The horoscope of Cancer men says that in bed they will have the best compatibility with a Sagittarius woman. But this does not mean that the relationship will be ideal. It's just that in bed, the opposite is important, which is what the Cancer-Sagittarius union has.
Cancer man in marriage
A Cancer man in marriage can be a neat, tidy, polite, honest, and homely man, but also very lazy and demanding. His demands on his wife are particularly noticeable. The wife of such a man will have to work hard to satisfy his needs.
He values cleanliness, harmony in the home, comfort, and coziness. Do not expect him to be of much help around the house. He is unlikely to hammer a nail into the wall or fix the plumbing - it is easier for him to call a master and watch the work from the sidelines.
Cancer men believe that their main task is to provide for the family financially, and nothing more. The wife will have to come to terms with this. Do you want to change him or re-educate him? Don't! He may not be perfect in marriage, but he will not let his wife manipulate him either. Moreover, he will try to re-educate you personally.
Such men like to be looked after, to be run after, to be bowed down to.
Cancer man as a father, parent
A Cancer man can be the perfect father in all aspects, which is not surprising. His natural restraint allows him to be calm in any situation and to weigh all his actions. He will give himself entirely to his children and dedicate all his time to them.
Children's tantrums, whims, resentments, running around, and mischief - he reacts to everything as needed, without emotions, with understanding. It may seem that he is weak-willed, but this is not the case. It's just that his love overshadows everything, including aggression and anger.
You will not have to ask him to pay attention to the child, he will do it himself, without hints or requests. Even his wife will not get as much of his attention as his children.
As a father, he is perfect.
How to please Cancer men
It is difficult to please a Cancer man, but it is possible. The main thing is to let him know that you want not passion and romance, but seriousness and a real relationship. It would also be helpful to follow a few important rules:
- Do not reproach him for being weak-willed.
- Support him in his dreams.
- Pay compliments and praise him often.
- Show respect for his parents, especially his mother.
- Do not demand that he change his behavior - he will not change.
- Be proactive and take the first steps in bed.
By following these rules, you can win the favor of a Cancer man and create a truly strong family.
