What are they like?
Not every man is given the chance to get along with an Aquarius woman. These charismatic, cheerful, stormy, active and effective women leave no one the slightest chance to conquer them completely and entirely. They are so freedom-loving and independent that they simply do not allow anyone to possess them.
But be that as it may, even these independent ladies sooner or later fall in love - that's when the confrontation between love and freedom begins. By the way, a man who gets such a wife is not very lucky, because by and large he will face an insurmountable wall of independence that even the most self-confident, persistent and stubborn man cannot break. But more on that later...
It is also worth noting that Aquarius women are mostly very bright personalities who attract attention from all sides. Until a certain time, they remain independent and self-sufficient, free. They are bright, cheerful, positive, active and effective, positive and optimistic during this period of their lives. But as soon as love bursts into the life of such a lady, everything changes.
At the moment of falling in love, an Aquarius woman can change beyond recognition, becoming dependent on the attention of just one person, and acquiring the goal of getting the man she likes at all costs. And she will do it, she will achieve it, but the consequences for that man will be simply unimaginable, because in a relationship with her he may face a whole bunch of problems.
General characteristics:
Aquarius wives remain independent and free even in marriage. Even the one whom such a lady is head over heels in love with will not be able to lock her up in four walls. Plus, these are mostly women who remain mysterious, unpredictable, and enigmatic even after the wedding. No man is given to unravel the nature of the representative of this zodiac sign. She will always surprise her husband with her behavior, hobbies, habits, desires, and goals. Today she is one, tomorrow she is another, now she wants one thing, tomorrow she wants another, just now she was smiling and joking, and in a moment she will start to take offense at something unknown. This is how the life of a man with an Aquarius wife will go.
One cannot fail to mention the factor of fidelity - but in the case of an Aquarius wife, this issue can be said to be on the edge. The fact is that by their nature, Aquarius wives are not walkers and are not prone to cheating, but at the same time, cheating and infidelity cannot be ruled out one hundred percent. The reason for cheating can be a banal restriction of the freedom and independence of the Aquarius wife. As soon as she feels that the man is trying to dominate her, to somehow limit her, the Aquarius woman will immediately start looking at other men and thinking about leaving for another, in the hope that then her freedom will remain with her.
If you want to see a faithful and devoted wife in an Aquarius woman, then first of all remember one simple fact - you can never restrict her freedom and encroach on her personal space. And at the same time, the more freedom you give her, the more she will want to lose it - that's what they are, Aquarius wives. By the way, Aquarius wives are very rare to go for a divorce. They try to keep their marriages by all means, at least in most cases. They are extremely tolerant of their husbands, patient, endure and forgive most of the offenses, and even "left-wing adventures" can be forgiven. But do not use this - the Aquarius wife will endure for a long time, but in the end she will take revenge, and very cruelly.
How to behave:
- Respect her personal space and do not deprive her of freedom;
- Do not show your jealousy - she will take it as a threat to independence;
- Pay more attention to compliments, gifts and romance;
- Be a promising and successful man in her eyes;
- Do not make too many plans for the future;
- Try to be unpredictable in her eyes, a mystery.
In the household:
If you dream of a housewife who will cook you three-course meals for lunch and delicious dinners, wash and clean, keep the house clean and deal with household chores, then an Aquarius wife is definitely not for you. Aquarius housewives are the least deserving of such a title. They are definitely not created for housekeeping. It is easier to get a hired housekeeper with such a woman. Demanding to be a housewife from an Aquarius is like banging your head against a wall - the effect is extremely negative...
Nevertheless, she will still take care of her husband, no matter how much she dislikes it. She will not allow her husband to go out untidy and disgrace her with his unkempt appearance, nor will she allow him to leave the house hungry. And these women are also too dependent on comfort. Even if she does not devote herself to cleaning and dusting, she will still devote as much time as needed to creating comfort and coziness in the house.
Pregnancy:
Pregnancy for an Aquarius woman is almost the most terrible event in life. They avoid it until they are ready. And the reason is not fear of pregnancy itself. The reason is that a pregnant Aquarius will not be able to come to terms with the fact that a person will appear in her life for whom she will have to bear 100% responsibility for a long time. For pregnant Aquarius women, the news of a fetus is like a sentence, a preface to the loss of freedom and independence.
However, it cannot be said that the representatives of this zodiac sign are irresponsible towards pregnancy itself. On the contrary, despite their fears and anxieties, these women responsibly carry the fetus and try to follow all the rules and instructions. But whether a pregnant Aquarius woman will become a good mother is a completely different question. Here everything depends on the upbringing, the atmosphere in the family and the character of the mother herself.
Aquarius mothers and their children:
In general, an Aquarius mother can even claim to be ideal. But this is only if the duties of raising a child and preparing it for adulthood are not taken into account. In everything except these two areas, an Aquarius mother can be ideal: she will always pay due attention to the child, explain everything, answer all questions, tell about important things, listen and show understanding, and if necessary, even get involved in issues of relationships with peers.
The problem is with the manifestation of feelings. Aquarius mothers cherish, hide, and hide their emotions and feelings. They are not able to show maternal love in the form that ordinary people are used to seeing. From such a woman, the child will receive neither tenderness nor excessive care....
But an Aquarius mother can always be trusted. To tell her about all your experiences, problems and troubles, and even count on her understanding and help. Even an adult son or daughter can always count on her help, advice, hint or moral support.
Strengths of Aquarius mothers:
- Attentive
- Honest and sincere
- They try to be there
- They always help their children to achieve their goals
- They are ready to listen and help with advice, if needed.
Weaknesses of Aquarius mothers:
- They are afraid of responsibility
- They do not know how to show feelings
- They are not too gentle and caring
- They shift the responsibility for upbringing onto the shoulders of the fathers.
