The character of a Aquarius man
According to the zodiac horoscope, Aquarius boys are spontaneous and inventive children from a young age. They are impressionable and very independent. It is impossible to instill in such a child something he does not agree with, nor can he be accustomed to something he is not interested in. They are very kind and cheerful boys, but devoid of any sense of responsibility. They are mostly disobedient, spoiled, and too restless. It will be difficult for any parent with such a boy. They are rebels by nature, hating rules and everything that human moral principles call for. But all these are only temporary manifestations of character.
The older the Aquarius guy becomes, the easier his seemingly difficult character becomes. Adult Aquarius men are very unpredictable, unconventional, and dreamy. They have excellent imaginations, at least most of them, and their imaginations help them find ways out of situations that seem to have no way out. But as soon as it comes to something serious, everything falls into place - it immediately becomes clear that these men cannot be trusted with important and responsible matters. Moreover, their irresponsibility and inefficiency are further complemented by self-doubt. Often, this self-doubt conflicts with determination, when an Aquarius man seems to want to do something, but is afraid that he will do it wrong.
Well, and besides all this, there are also many disadvantages, as well as advantages.
The strengths of Aquarius man
The most important advantage of Aquarius men is their effectiveness, their inability to sit still and do nothing, their unwillingness to live quietly, without acting or being lazy. They always find something to do, they constantly come up with new and new things for themselves, they are always busy with something. At the same time, it also plays into their hands that all men of this zodiac sign are endowed with organizational skills. As a result, what do we get? We get a spoiled and restless person who interests everyone around him in every possible way. Usually in large companies, the Aquarius man is the ringleader, who is followed by everyone all the time. You won't have to wait long for adventures in such a company where there is an Aquarius...
Purposefulness, perseverance, persistence - these traits are perfectly combined in the character of the Aquarius man, and what is no less important, they are the most important. The whole strength of these qualities lies in the fact that thanks to them, the Aquarius man always achieves his goals. If he is interested in the goal, if there is an incentive to achieve it, then he will do it. And he will not be stopped by obstacles, no matter what they are. He will not abandon his idea, he will not abandon the business. However, unfortunately, this does not apply to work - everything is different here, but more on that later.
Communication skills are also one of the main advantages of Aquarius men. They easily make contact, know how to talk beautifully and interest people in themselves, and they are always excellent conversationalists. However, unlike women born under the same sign, men are not advisers, and you should not count on their support. They know how to listen, but they do not know how to treat other people's problems with due seriousness.
The weaknesses of Aquarius man
The main disadvantage of the Aquarius man is his inconstancy, lack of a sense of responsibility, unreliability, and inefficiency. Usually, these are manifested in study and work. It is better not to trust such representatives of the male half of humanity with important matters and decisions. They are too unreliable, and most of them are also lazy when it comes to something that is not of interest to them.
Aquarius men are also too fickle in terms of relationships with women. Most of them are womanizers, "heartbreakers" who do not think about other people's feelings, but only about themselves. And the main drawback is an excessive love of independence and freedom. And you should not try to limit their freedom, you should not try to turn such a man into a henpecked husband. Believe me, nothing good will come of it. The more you restrict him, the more he will want freedom.
Aquarius man in career
Aquarians are mostly excellent specialists in a wide variety of fields. They are especially good at creative professions (writing, poetry, journalism, acting, philosophy), but they also do well in jobs that involve teamwork. It is very important that the abilities of the Aquarius man are appreciated. And this is the main problem with Aquarius men - their strengths often go unnoticed because of their weaknesses.
It is also impossible to call an Aquarius man punctual, responsible, and executive. On the contrary, they are too non-punctual and constantly break the rules. This is the reason why they mostly have problems communicating with their superiors, and this makes career growth impossible.
But things are even worse with money. They are stingy with everyone around them, but they do not spare money for themselves. They live life to the fullest, and even if they are successful in their careers and their wallet is full of large bills, Aquarius will still not live richly - a spendthrift, and that says it all.
Aquarius man in communication
Aquarius men are very complex in communicating with people. Their main problem is their inconstancy. Today you have an Aquarius friend, and tomorrow he will become indifferent to you. At the same time, he will not have any mental anguish. For such men, friendship is always fleeting.
Do not count on heart-to-heart conversations with an Aquarius man. These representatives of the strong half of humanity are not capable of deep conversations and serious topics, they do not like all this. Although, if he himself is tormented by some problems and experiences, he will gladly complain about them to someone, and it does not matter who is in front of him, a friend, a relative, or a stranger.
But communication skills and eloquence will always be appreciated in any company. These men are cheerful and optimistic, always full of ideas and are able to sow positiveness in any society. Believe me, it will definitely not be boring in a company with an Aquarius man.
But do not even think about criticizing or lecturing such a person under any circumstances. Criticism, and especially lectures, will be taken very seriously, almost "with hostility". This way you will lose both a friend and just an acquaintance, believe me.
Aquarius man in love
For an Aquarius man, love is not an empty and meaningless word. Unlike an Aquarius woman, a man always takes this feeling very seriously and responsibly. But it is extremely difficult to achieve love from him - it is a rare case to meet an Aquarius with real, sincere love burning in his heart. And not every woman will be able to fall in love with him.
But if there is love in the heart of such a man, then it is forever, and it will only testify to one thing - you have ideal compatibility with him, and you will be a strong, strong couple.
Everything is very easy and simple in love with Aquarius. He is a dreamer, an experimenter, a joker and an optimist. He will definitely fill the life of his soulmate with positiveness. And if he has compatibility with his soulmate not only in characters, but also in life goals, then everything will be as good as possible.
But remember, Aquarius' love is unstable, pure, but fickle, it needs to be constantly warmed up.
Aquarius man in bed
In bed with an Aquarius, a woman is unlikely to feel like a queen or a very desirable woman. The Aquarius man in bed perceives lovemaking as a physical duty, as a fact of proving possession of a woman, nothing more.
Do you expect experiments, fantasy, carnal pleasures and romance from him? You shouldn't! Aquarians are not like that, at least when it comes to men... These men are curious, and they are attracted not by lovemaking itself, but only by novelty, female attention and new experiences.
Do not think that having been in bed with an Aquarius you will find your soulmate - this is not true. For him, "bedtime fun" is just a manifestation of feelings and a desire to get closer. Although, again, it all depends on such factors as upbringing, character, and most importantly, compatibility.
As for the behavior of the Aquarius man in bed, everything is simple here. He will not resist the dominance of the woman, he will gladly be an obedient puppy in bed and will give himself up to the control of the lady. But no matter how hard you try, do not expect him to think about your pleasure - most of these men are selfish in bed. And if there is compatibility, and even love, then that's when a lot can change.
Aquarius man in marriage
In marriage, an Aquarius man can change a lot, and not for the worse, but on the contrary, for the better. This is one of the few signs of the Zodiac for which family is not just a word. Aquarius men are mostly excellent family men, one can even say exemplary. Such a man will not allow his own interests to get in the way of harmony in the family. And if there are also children in the family, then there can be no question of this man leaving the family. At the same time, there will be responsibility, efficiency, and reliability. For an Aquarius man, family is property, and property must be protected and defended.
In marriage, he will always be a responsible man, the keeper of life and home. He will share all responsibilities and cares with his wife without exception.
But there is one "but"... This "but" is that the wife will have to constantly kindle in her husband the flame of love for her and their family. If Aquarius gets bogged down in everyday life and responsibilities, then he will start to change for the worse - he will become a pessimist, an eternally negative person. This should not be allowed.
Aquarius man as a father, parent
As a father, Aquarius can show himself at his best. He will surely put the interests of his children above his own, and in no case will he sacrifice the interests of his children for his own. This sign is characterized by an excessive love for children, as fathers, Aquarians are simply ideal.
But it is not usually without problems. The fact is that the fatherly love of such a dad will be so strong that in a fit of love and tenderness he will forget about the important thing - about upbringing.
Unlimited love, tenderness, care, attempts to turn the child's life into Paradise - that's what fatherhood is like for an Aquarius dad. And everything more serious will be left behind.
The mother of Aquarius' children will have to take all the most serious responsibilities upon herself. She will have to deal with the upbringing personally. But you should not reproach him for his paternal inadequacy, because it will offend him and make him more callous.
How to Please an Aquarius Man
It is actually quite easy to please an Aquarius man. All you need to do is interest him in you, and then simply follow these simple rules:
- Love and cherish him. Aquarius men appreciate feeling loved and appreciated. Make sure to let him know how much you care about him, both verbally and physically.
- Admire him and flatter him. Aquarius men are also very egotistical, so they love being admired and flattered. Tell him how handsome, intelligent, and amazing he is.
- Never reproach him for his shortcomings or criticize his behavior. Aquarius men are very independent and don't like being told what to do. If you criticize them, they will likely just become defensive and shut down.
- Be a mystery to him. Aquarius men are naturally curious and love a challenge. Keep him guessing by being unpredictable and not always revealing everything about yourself.
- Never lie to him, even when it's difficult. Aquarius men value honesty above all else. If you lie to him, he will likely lose trust in you and never forgive you.
- Be patient and don't make a scene of jealousy. Aquarius men are very freedom-loving and don't like feeling suffocated. If you're too jealous or possessive, he will likely just pull away from you.
If you can follow these simple rules, you'll be well on your way to winning the heart of an Aquarius man.